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Sunrise, Sunset: On Knowing When to Let go

March 30, 2026

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For well over a year, we were part of the global movement known as Run For Their Lives— a grassroots effort to support the hostages held by Hamas and other groups. Each week, we gathered, walked one kilometer, and spoke about the situation. We could not change the world, but our work mattered. We know that because the families of hostages consistently mentioned the umbrella organization in their expressions of gratitude.

At its height, nearly 250 groups worldwide participated, with thousands of weekly walkers. There was momentum, community, and deep alignment around purpose.

The Israeli hostage tragedy ended in 2025, with the release of the remaining living hostages and the slow, painful recovery of the bodies of those who had been slain. Our group — like so many others — met a final time in acknowledgment of a mission completed. We thanked one another, embraced, and vowed to keep in touch.

Then came the harder question: what would become of the movement itself?

On a recent call, the movement’s leaders — Israeli-American volunteers from California — shared a wrap-up video and made a quiet, dignified announcement: Run for Their Lives was officially sunsetting. The mission was complete. It was time to close.

I believe they made exactly the right call. And I think it’s worth reflecting on why that kind of decision is so rare — and so admirable.

The Jewish community has faced this question before. The movement to free Soviet Jewry — which mobilized across decades, filled Madison Square Garden and Washington DC with rallies, and kept the cause of refuseniks alive in the conscience of the West — accomplished its mission when the Soviet Union collapsed and the gates opened. By the early 1990s, most of the councils and organizations that had powered the movement quietly wound down. The Student Struggle for Soviet Jewry disbanded. The Union of Councils stepped back. The work was done.

That graceful exit is, in retrospect, as much a part of the movement’s legacy as its advocacy.

Not every organization manages it so well. Instead of acknowledging that the world has changed, or that their original mission is complete, they keep trying to reinvent themselves. They make their case for relevancy. They wait out cultural shifts, hoping to return to an earlier moment. They stay past closing time.

The result is rarely graceful. It’s stagnation dressed up as perseverance.

When is the right time to close? How do you want to be remembered — for the dynamism of your best years, or for the long, slow fade of your last ones? Is there another organization doing similar work, where a merger might multiply impact rather than dilute it? Or is the most honest thing simply to declare victory, thank the people who showed up, and let go?

Run for Their Lives chose legacy over inertia. They looked at what they had built, recognized that the moment had passed, and chose to end with their integrity intact. That takes a particular kind of leadership courage — one that is quieter than launching something, but no less significant.

Sunrise. Sunset. And the wisdom to know the difference.

With my best wishes for a joyous and meaningful holiday week.

Fondly,

Kari Alterman

Kari

Run 4 Their Lives group, Franklin, Michigan, October 2025.

 

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When the Walls Close in

March 17, 2026

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As many of you know, I speak regularly at the Zekelman Holocaust Center, sharing my father’s survival story — most often with school children. I work from a script, but each presentation takes on its own shape depending on the group, the energy in the room, the rhythm of the conversation. Still, certain lines find their way into nearly every talk. One of them describes the moment everything changed for my dad: when the Nazis came to his slice of Hungary. He was hospitalized for Scarlet Fever treatment in March of 1944 when they arrived.

That phrase has been echoing in my head lately. More than usual.

I keep thinking about the 2012 shooting at the Sikh Temple of Wisconsin in Oak Creek — and how I took my kids to a nearby Gurdwara afterward to offer our support and to acknowledge, out loud, that it could just as easily have been a Jewish building.

And then it was a Jewish building. Tree of Life. Poway. Colleyville. An AJC reception in Washington, D.C.  And. And. And.

And then it was here.

Temple Israel isn’t my synagogue in the sense that I’m not there every week for Shabbat services, but it is woven into the fabric of my life and most likely yours. It is the synagogue the entire Detroit Jewish community knows. Everyone has been there. Everyone knows at least one of its clergy, its staff — people who, famously, never seem to leave. My friend Kari has been there for thirty years.

Much has already been written about what happened — accounts of that day, and our deep gratitude for law enforcement and the years of training and investment that kept people safe. I don’t need to add to that record here.

What I’m struggling with is something harder to name: the loss of psychological safety. That is what terrorism does. It doesn’t just threaten lives, it erodes the feeling that you belong somewhere, that you are allowed to exist without looking over your shoulder. We have felt this before. After October 7, 2023, we watched antisemitism surge on college campuses, hearing chants of “globalize the intifada” and other hateful rhetoric aimed at Jews. Well, they have made that rhetoric real — they have globalized the intifada, and brought it to our doorstep.

The walls feel like they’re closing in.

I get asked, often, at the Holocaust Center: Why are Jews the scapegoats? What did they do? I never have a good answer. The question itself is a kind of trap — it implies there could be a reason, that if we just found the right one, it would make sense. It never makes sense.

So what do we do?

Not long before this happened, I wrote about the importance of staying in community. I believe that now more than ever. It won’t undo what happened. It won’t answer the unanswerable questions. But it is how we hold on to each other, and how we remind ourselves — and anyone watching — that we are still here and together we have real strength and power.

That’s what I’ll be doing.

What will you be doing?

Fondly,

Kari Alterman

Kari

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Earlier Dispatches

  • On Spirituality, Legacy, and Dining with People Who Change You April 15, 2026
  • On a (Somewhat) Lighter Note April 9, 2026
  • Sunrise, Sunset: On Knowing When to Let go March 30, 2026
  • On Legacy and Aging March 24, 2026
  • When the Walls Close in March 17, 2026
  • No Occasion Necessary March 11, 2026
  • It’s a Small World, After All March 5, 2026
  • On Community February 25, 2026
  • What do you see? February 17, 2026
  • How Much is Too Much? February 10, 2026
  • On Jew-Hatred — and Hatred in General February 3, 2026
  • Letting a Place Rewrite the Story January 25, 2026
  • What We Carry Forward January 14, 2026
  • Starting Over, On Purpose January 6, 2026
  • What Comes Into Focus December 31, 2025
  • Queen of the Dodo Birds December 23, 2025
  • Legacy, Courage, and the Good Name We Leave Behind December 15, 2025
  • Meeting in the Middle December 8, 2025
  • When the Circle Expands November 24, 2025
  • Collecting People, Collecting Moments November 19, 2025
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